03 January 2009

A litter of one

The zimpup arrived yesterday
He came in the natural way
Young Griffin is strong
With feet that are long
The rest I see no need to say

Emily's 39-week wait has ended. Early on January 2nd, I awoke in bed, still not fully recovered from a stupid New Year's hangover. When I became aware of her, I realized she was using her laptop, tracking her contractions at contractionmaster.com. When they came at five-minute intervals, we calmly loaded the car and went to the hospital.

Emily was a goddess. I have never seen her, nor anyone, in so much pain. It hurt me seeing her like that, but by the end of labor, she said pushing was such a relieving outlet after waiting through the pain of intensifying contractions. At 12:08pm on January 2nd, she delivered our son, Griffin Porter Zimmerman: 7 pounds, 9 ounces (or 3.43 kg for those who prefer metric), with his parents' height (19.5 inches).

Those are the scissors I used to trim the cord. Someday, he gets to blame me if he doesn't like his innie/outie.

That's Griffin's "in utero life-support system" (or, the placenta). He no longer needs it now that he has the Earth's atmosphere for breath and his mom's breast milk to eat. The human organism is quite special.

As Emily lie writhing and making painful exhalations that made me cry, I kept wondering when the beauty of labor would become apparent to me. The whole process seemed more a form of torture than the wonderful experience people often recall. But when my son's head finished passing through the birth canal, and the rest of him came sliding out with the amniotic fluid, the reward for Emily's pain was clear.

But Emily wasn't the only one who had a rough day. The process of labor makes for a pretty sleepy baby...

... and proud parents too!


Xander and Alana Cole Faber said...

From looking at Emily, you'd think she just stopped by the store to pick the kid up along with a gallon of milk. Your wife looks pretty awesome for just having undergone torture! (You see why we're adopting, right?) You must be a very proud husband--and father--indeed. I hope you guys make a trip up to PA after the thaw. We'd love to come down and see you.

BB said...

Bravo to both of you & extra for Emily. It's amazing what they have to do to get them here. The picture with you looking down at him in the end is a classic & reminds of the way I looked at Maggie when she was born. (...huh?)

Best of luck; he looks great. Call me anytime. Right now I only got great advice on hyperactive 2 1/2 year old girls with overactive imaginations. I might be able to dig up some old tips or tricks if you are in need. To add to that point, cherish the newborn. They grow insanely fast. It's almost like a new child every day that early on.

Tiffany Deemer Thompson said...

Cor.....Zimpup looks strong and healthy. I am sure your passion for life will make you a wonderful father. Congrats again!

Uncle Mike said...

Congratulations!!!! I'm so excited for you both! I was sitting here at work today and I thought, "hmm I wonder how Cory and Emily are doing" and went to your sites...and saw the great news! I can't wait to tell Lori when I get home. She's staying there today b/c we have another appointment this afternoon. We're still aboot a month or so out (Feb 14), but now I'm getting even more excited after reading your post!

It's so exciting for me to think about our sons (and little Ian Patrick Shutts) growing up together!

Uncle Mike